12 Rules for Life
"12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos" is a self-help book by Canadian clinical psychologist and psychology professor Jordan B. Peterson. Published in 2018, the book provides life advice through essays in abstract ethical principles, psychology, mythology, religion, and personal anecdotes. Here's a summary of the 12 rules mentioned in the book:
Stand up straight with your shoulders back: This rule emphasizes the importance of adopting a posture that signals to others (and oneself) that you are confident and self-respecting.
Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping: It suggests the importance of taking care of oneself with the same concern and attention one might use to take care of others.
Make friends with people who want the best for you: This rule stresses the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive and positive individuals.
Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today: This highlights the importance of personal growth and self-improvement, focusing on one's progress rather than comparing oneself with others.
Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them: It advises parents to raise their children in a manner that makes them likable and well-adjusted individuals.
Set your house in perfect order before you criticize the world: This rule suggests that one should focus on getting their own life in order before criticizing others or the world.
Pursue what is meaningful (not what is expedient): This emphasizes prioritizing long-term goals and values over short-term gains.
Tell the truth – or, at least, don’t lie: It underscores the importance of honesty and how lies can lead to chaos and dysfunction.
Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don’t: This rule is about being open to learning from others and respecting different viewpoints.
Be precise in your speech: It suggests that clear and precise communication can help avoid misunderstandings and resolve problems.
Do not bother children when they are skateboarding: This rule implies the importance of risk-taking and learning through experience, especially for children.
Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street: It symbolizes finding moments of happiness and peace in small things, especially during times of hardship and chaos.
Each rule is explored in its own chapter in the book, where Peterson delves into philosophical and psychological explanations to support his points. The book has been both praised and critiqued for its approach to addressing life's challenges
